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Is there such a thing as 'general intelligence'? What capabilities does it require? Is it a goal worth striving for? We usually speak about…
Sometimes it's necessary and right to prioritize my own interests, even if [ global utility ] is ultimately the only metric. Developing…
(fellow student) Smitha has these post-its on her desk: what are you doing? why is it important? are you making progress? I think these…
There's a famous quote attributed to Eleanor Roosevelt: "great minds discuss ideas, average ones events, mediocre ones discuss people". This…
A pitfall with relying too heavily on rational deduction is that lots of logically 'true' conclusions are unimportant, or worse yet…
Telling people about your failures, your fears, your self-doubt, your insecurities can be a path towards deeper connection. Understanding…
There is a similarity in kind between the negative effects of: rape slavery feeling forced to work on someone else's projects, by a boss…
see also (maybe combine with?) [ relationship ] Accept [ bids ] as much as possible. Praise your partner in public (and in private). Stay in…