grief is depression: Nonlinear Function
Created: August 21, 2020
Modified: August 21, 2020

grief is depression

This page is from my personal notes, and has not been specifically reviewed for public consumption. It might be incomplete, wrong, outdated, or stupid. Caveat lector.
  • When someone we love dies, a sense of possibility leaves the world.
  • Our grief is usually proportional to how much we cared about them---literally, how much of our own sense of purpose was tied up in taking care of them, or helping them be happy. A good relationship grants you a sense of purpose. Having kids grants a sense of purpose. Losing that purpose is the defining attribute of depression. Depression is the absence of goals.